Many couples who experience remodeling together find themselves arguing over topics that would have previously never been an issue before. Although it’s a common issue, it doesn’t have to be. There are many things that you can do to prevent yourselves from fighting over simple changes and preferences. Here are some tips and considerations to prepare you for remodeling your living space together without having to deal with the stresses and frustrations of your designing differences.
Pre-Plan The Details
You should opt to decide on the details of the remodeling together as early as possible. If you don’t handle these decisions now, it can cause arguments later. In most cases, if you browse through the options together, you will be able to find something that you can both appreciate.
Even if you and your partner have completely different tastes in designs and styles, you can still find something you will both enjoy by mixing your styles to create something more personal and unique. It is important to compromise so that you can create a style that will make both of you happy.
You should be able to agree to an estimated budget. There should be room for flexibility of up to 30 percent lower and higher in order to ensure that you can avoid arguments later on. Being able to agree to the cost of the project ahead of time can prevent many of the financial issues that couples share when they are working on a remodeling project for the first time together.
It’s important to ensure that both of you understand that space and time is going to be very limited during the remodeling process. You can expect to share a smaller space during the majority of the experience, so having some understanding and patience with each other is very important.
Noises and Dust
During remodeling, couples should expect that there will be an increase in loud noises, dust, and partitions from the area that is being worked on. Those who are typically focused on cleanliness should try to be flexible during this period and understand that things may not always be so tidy but that this isn’t the fault of their partner. Sometimes it may be very noisy during the remodel, so try to pre-plan your personal obligations ahead of time.
In general, it’s a good idea to remember to be patient with each other during the remodeling process. Since remodeling can be a stressful period, some people make the mistake of taking out their frustration and anxiety on their loved one and blaming them for the issues instead of recognizing that many of these elements can be worked out ahead of time by pre-planning and doing research together. Making agreements with each other and learning more about the other person’s perspective can help you to feel more comfortable with the changes that will be made within your living space.